Stories and Olives

Places

It has been another week, and the more familiarized with the neighborhood of Jeb ElWebdeh I get, the more I love it. I’m sitting in a cafe called Fann Wa Chai, translated to “art and tea.” It’s a second floor loft on the road that I have begun to consider as the “hip strip”  in honor of one of Missoula’s most acculturated streets. The cafe is filled with pen-and-pencil art and ginger lemonades. The one-way, busy street below has space for one car to drive and parking space along either side. It’s lined with fruit and vegetable shops, banks, and “maktabas” or libraries/print shops/bookstores (yes, that word means all of those things).

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Fann w Chai cafe looking over the street below.

I’ve been feeling discouraged because I’ve been here for almost a month (minus the trip to Istanbul) and I feel like I have accomplished nothing. Sure, I’ve refreshed my memory of Arabic language and become familiar with my surroundings, which is progress – but in comparison to my usual pace my life is at a crawl right now.

So, in order to fill the absence of a crazy schedule, I’ve begun doing a number of things. A fellow Fulbrighter, Claire Wilson, introduced us to a local  “masra7 al7akeyat” or storytelling theater last night. We initially thought that when it said theater it meant the Roman theater in downtown and made our way through the maze of cut-backs and staircases to the “balad” or downtown to attend. Although the theater by night is beautiful and there have been many improvements to the surrounding park, no-one there knew what we were talking about when we inquired about the storytelling scheduled for that night.

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The park area surrounding the Roman Theater in downtown Amman.

Eventually we found the theater we wanted, “Misra7 Al Balad,” on Google maps (yes, it works here and is a lifesaver). We got a taxi to take us to the vicinity (4 people squished in the back seat), and finally found the theater at the top of a set of stairs. Because we’d gotten lost we had to attend a later showing than we had intended, and we watched a play comprised of 3 monologues called “Shams” or sun. It was beautifully done, and spoken in dialect so it was very good for me to attend as I am focusing my Arabic studies on dialect and conversation for the time being.

The outside of the theater was beautiful and so was the play.

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The doorway to Masra7 Albalad.
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A description of “Shams.”
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The cast of “Shams.”

Work progress

Today I went back to my school to sign my contract, only to realize that my local transportation allowance was not included, and I was going to be signing on as a full-time faculty member. Since I’m only supposed to be working 20 hours a week for them, and it costs around $9-10 a day to go there by taxi, both of these were important fixes. I spoke to the HR Director, Reem, and she is going to sort out the details for me. In the meantime, I’m waiting to report to the Dean of the Business School on September 15th to find out what my duties and hours are going to be like.

As I mentioned before, I’ve begun looking for a volunteer opportunity by searching online, asking friends, and emailing possible organizations. After the 20+ emails I sent out resulted in not even one response I was becoming a bit discouraged. Today, though, I received a phone call from the King Hussein Foundation inviting me to an interview on Sunday. Their organization has programs for women’s empowerment, social development and equity, leadership, education, and more. It’s a wonderful possibility and I hope that the interview goes well.

T-Shirt Shopping

The apartment mates and I went out poster-and-t-shirt-shopping at Jo Bedu and Mlabbas. They both have trendy concepts, t-shirt jokes, cultural euphemisms and more. My favorite designs were their “I like you” card written in Arabic, and their “bull sh*t” t-shirt also written in Arabic.

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The “bull sh*t” and “I like you” texts in Arabic.

The others bought some posters, but I am waiting to buy one I wanted that wasn’t in stock at the time.

Bugs and things

Then, there was the night of the bug. As I mentioned, we haven’t had many settling-in issues. One potential issue, the idea of which I have intentionally avoided, is that there are cockroaches in Jordan. After growing up with them in Atlanta and leaving them far behind with the move to Montana I hoped to avoid them for good. But, the other night there was a very large “visitor” on the kitchen counter, and I had to invite him to leave via cleaning spray and the toilet. I sent a picture of it to Farid, my mom, and one of the other apartment mates to feel that I wasn’t alone with bugs in the world at midnight, and it circulated until everyone in Fulbright knew about it. One neighbor (you know who you are) couldn’t sleep that night because the image was stuck in his mind.

My aunt Diana is an entomologist, so my mom insisted on sending it to her to have her identify what type it was and see if she had suggestions as to why it was on my counter. We’ll see what the news is on that one.

Bread

I called Sofra bakery today to order some trays of bread. I ordered 60 pieces of bread because the bakery is far away and I don’t feel like going every week. Since we had a little miscommunication I hope I didn’t order 60 trays of bread. I will eat them nevertheless, but I don’t think that 60 trays would fit in my freezer. Oh the joy of second-language communication. Also to my dismay, they had to put a woman who spoke flawless fos7a (Modern Standard Arabic) on the line to communicate effectively with me. I’ll get there…

Olives

Last year when I was in Amman for CLS, I watched the olives develop over the two months I was there. Olive trees line the streets throughout Amman, and there are olive groves covering the surrounding countryside. Last year, I watched them grow from very small green bumps along the branches to olive-shaped objects. This year, I can’t wait to watch them ripen. I tried eating one during CLS and it was absolutely disgusting – I’ve been watching them to see when they’ll be edible this year.

I used to contemplate olives quite regularly and much more deeply than is befitting because I would walk to my neighborhood gym in T’la3 Al3ali (the neighborhood ACOR, our CLS home, is located in) and pass rows of olive trees. I was always a little more pensive than usual because my gym time was my alone/well-being time in the hectic CLS schedule. Olives, then and now, remind me of humanity, including myself. Facing drought and rough conditions, a bit bitter, still growing, and essential for something or someone yet unidentified. And, there are many millions surrounding us that are of equal or greater importance than ourselves, and are “invisible” or unnoticed.

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People Live Here

I was having a conversation with my mom about my daily life here, and it reminded me that since things have begun to be more routine, I should share some daily tidbits.

A lot of people are concerned about the unrest in the Middle East, and the people in Jordan are no exception. But, it’s important to remind people that life in Amman is really quite the same as anywhere else in the world. We work, buy groceries, go to the mall, go out at night, work, commute, study.

Much of my time is spent in taxis. This is no exaggeration. And I only expect it to get worse. I’ve never had to rely on someone or something else to this extent, and thankfully taxis are generally easy to find at Douar Paris (a minute walking from my apartment). I feel like I’m always in a taxi when I’m texting friends (thanks to everyone that has added Whatsapp and Viber, I really want to stay in touch and this is the best way, truly). If you don’t have aforementioned applications on your computer or smartphone, please get them and say hi.

So, taxis. I spend an average of $10-15 a day riding to and fro, and I’m not even working yet. This is only bound to get worse. Imagine if you spent that much on gas every day – well, I guess some people do. I feel like this is my biggest problem so far, in which case I’m doing quite well.

Since getting back from Istanbul, I’ve begun to settle in nicely. My very kind landlord got me a desk for my room, and I feel unnaturally happy about it. It is next to my window that I get the evening sun from, and all of my clutter is neatly cluttering its shelves.

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Besides getting me my much-appreciated desk, the landlord also introduced me to gluten free rice bread made Arab-style (no, do not start singing “Gangnam Style” in your head). It’s in a bakery called “Sofra” about 20 minutes from here. The two packages the landlord got me for a housewarming gift didn’t last very long, because in addition to the beauty of actually having the bread itself, I also discovered how much I loved hummus with it, and a newly discovered delight called Labneh. It’s strained yogurt, it reminds me of greek yogurt or cream cheese, and it’s just amazing. So, because that batch of bread went so quickly, I made a trek out there today for seconds. The bakery was bread-lover heaven – it’s famous here. I also bought cake.

While Christina and I were in Turkey, we bought some things for our rooms because they were bare and forlorn. We got things for the walls, and other decorations. The first, of course, was a Turkish rug. Mine is one from the 1970s, handmade in Konya, Turkey. It’s made of all the colors I love to wear. Except blue I suppose.

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In addition to the rug, we both got handmade mosaic lamps. Mine is purpleish, and sits on my desk.

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Last night, we went to City Mall and shopped at their super-center grocery store Carrefour. These I have found in Oman and Egypt as well, so it’s a bit of normality. Therein, I found some houseplants, and bought this one:

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Yes, that’s me holding it in the grocery store, before actually purchasing it. I was just too excited about the prospect of sharing my room with another living thing. It now sits on the window sill where it gets the evening sunshine (next to my DESK). The plant, mom informed me, is a Schefflera. Maybe I’ll call it Scheffy.

One of the few problems we had when moving in – two main ones actually – was that we didn’t know how the hot water heater worked. The one and only shower we took here before Turkey was the one we had before our flight, and we both took horrible cold showers because we couldn’t figure out why the hot water wasn’t working. We assumed it was a pilot light or something. So, when we got back, in order to avoid such another such chilling experience, I sent this picture to Farid to see if he knew how to get it to turn on.

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He replied by telling me to find the wall switch (which I did, right outside the door, and when I switched it on it worked). How embarrassing. Now that the hot water works, it is really HOT. You know how there are safety precautions on the ones in the USA (and I’m sure elsewhere) to make sure you don’t scald yourself? Well, they don’t exist on these. I don’t think McDonald’s cups have “warning, may be hot” labels on them either.

I actually like this about Jordan and other Arab countries. You still fend for yourself – if you don’t want to get hit crossing the street be smart and look for traffic, if you don’t want to be scalded, make sure you adjust your water before standing in it. It’s just a little more of the independence and self-sufficiency I love so much.

The other moving-in problem was getting our gas stove to turn on, but that was quickly fixed by asking the Hareesah (resident assistant of sorts) woman here.

Christina and I have also joined a gym since getting back. It’s a Fitness First, and it’s about 10 minutes driving from here. Or shall I say, taxi-ing. The gym has a great mixed area, and an even greater women’s only area. They have strict anti-harassment policies – i.e. if you are reported for harassing you are kicked out never to return, and without refund. It definitely keeps the stares to a minimum when you use the mixed areas. There are also indoor and outdoor lounges, a smoothie bar, movie rentals for members, showers, and daily lockers. The gym is pretty, and has absolutely everything we need. Definitely worth the investment and the well-being it will bring once the stress of work, school, and volunteering sets in.

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We also got three free personal trainer sessions. Our personal trainer is Rana, a hardcore Jordanian lady. After our first session (which Christina and I share since we are of similar strength) I couldn’t move my arms for two days, and I was so sore it woke me up at night. The next few sessions were a bit better. Somewhere along the way, we were convinced that we wanted to keep getting personal training sessions from Rana, so we signed up for 12 more sessions. They were exorbitantly priced, and budgets won’t allow this to continue, but it’s a nice jump-start after not working out since my half marathon in July.

Another very important development is that Christina and I are now antibiotic free. After returning from Turkey, we obediently finished our ten-day cycle of medicine, and when we took the last two, we were so happy we had a pill-toast.

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I’ve also been to see my school, the Princess Sumaya University for Technology. It has a beautiful campus, and my supervisor and the president are exceptionally nice. My supervisor went to school in Michigan, and he and his wife honeymooned hiking in the mountains – he’s one of the few Jordanians I’ve met who have been to Glacier and Yellowstone and loved it more that the East Coast. I met my supervisor in a Fulbright hosted dinner where all the Fulbrighters got to meet their hosts and supervisors. It was a lively dinner full of discussion and ideas. The president of the university also attended, and he has lived for many years in Miami – he’s an inventor, and has a few patents already. Both were very inclusive and respectful.

A few days after the dinner, I met my supervisor to tour my new campus. It has only a few large buildings, but they are beautiful, orderly, and clean. Everyone is friendly there from the staff and faculty. The campus sits right near the University of Jordan campus, and both areas have many evergreen trees on their grounds.

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My tutor from CLS days here, Sarah, will be tutoring me twice a week. She is amazing and patient and I look forward to 3 hours a week with her. We start up on Saturday. Also, in about two weeks all the ETAs will begin dialect classes at the Qasid Institute, where I studied Arabic on CLS here.

I’ve been trying to touch base with organizations to get involved volunteering somewhere, but these things just take time. Still looking…

Flashbacks to an empire(or a few)…a week in Istanbul

Adventure

After unpacking at the flat in Amman, Christina and I set off for a new adventure in Istanbul. We were still struggling with jet lag when we got to the Amman airport, and we ate Popeye’s fried chicken and fish for lunch, and toured around the brand new airport (built and opened since we were here last year). It was interesting to look out the window and compare the old airport that was being demolished with the new surroundings. So often we’re challenged with this contrast of realities.

We had a brief layover in Cairo, and it made me nostalgic for times I’ve spent there and frustrated that I wasn’t allowed to leave the airport. Christina and I peered through the plane windows wistfully while we likened ourselves to Edward Snowden as he remained in transit in Russia until he was granted asylum. You are half-way in and half-way out of the country in which the airport sits.

Arrival Conundrums

After our layover in Cairo – which consisted of many fussy children, loud phone calls, and people smoking in no smoking areas – we continued on to Istanbul. When we arrived (with a beautiful view of the red-roofed buildings from the plane) it had been 8-9 hours since we left Amman, and we were feeling the exhaustion creeping up on us. We had to stand in a line to purchase visas, and that went smoothly, but the next line (passport control) was another story. We stood in the line as one after another got their passports stamped, and when there were three people left in line in front of us, the passport control workers began giggling and closed their window, waving us on to the next one. Our ire was roused but we sulked to the next line that had lines upon lines upon lines of people waiting to get through. We made it half-way through (which took 15 minute) when a short, aging Turkish man threw his bag over the rail and attempted to cut in front of us. I said “excuse me sir” to get his attention, but he pretended to ignore me – I grabbed his shoulder and pulled him back and said “NO!” and stepped in front of him. He picked on the Arab family behind us because they didn’t want to confront him, but he kept kicking his bag against our legs until we finished in the line. Don’t pick on a tired Julie, man.

After we finally made it through the line (likely an hour after we landed), we entered the arrivals area where there were over 100 hosts waiting with the names of clients as they walked out. Christina had booked us beds at the Bahaus hostel in the old city of Istanbul (Sultanahmet neighborhood), and they were waiting with her name on a placard as well. We fished around looking for them, but didn’t find them. There was no internet at the airport, and there was no way to find out if they had left us after our delay. A gentleman waiting for another guest eventually helped us, and we found a young boy of about 12-14 years old waiting for us. He said the driver was stuck in traffic, so we waited for awhile until we loaded into a bus with another family. It was rush hour traffic. We drove another family on the bus to a hotel nearby, and then oddly, our driver pulled over on the side of the busy road and told us to get out. There was another van waiting with its back doors open and we shuffled over to it hoping we weren’t about to be abducted and never seen again.

Eventually we arrived at the hostel, paid the driver, and walked inside. The area was beautiful. Cobblestone streets juxtaposed to brand new cars and a tram system, old hotels and buildings rising up along narrow streets, all with red roofs and painted in many colors. We met one of the hostel hosts, Bahre, who wore “Aladdin pants” and made the hostel “go ’round” with walking tours and nightlife. He was one of the most Turkish individuals we met while there, and worked to make the stay fun for everyone.

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We were shown to our beds –  we had the top and bottom bunks by the door to the 14-bed room. All the rooms were air-conditioned and had coded door locks and lockers for our stuff. We met a bunch of our roommates –  from all over the world: Slovenia, Ireland, England, Italy, Canada, Spain, U.S. including Hawaii, Australia, India, and Mexico. The rooftop of the hostel was a bar and lounge area, and the bartender, Wes, was from Atlanta. We had a lot to talk about regarding Atlanta as he had just left the states for a few years of adventure before he began his career in earnest.

When we checked in to the hostel, Bahre informed us that there would be a “pub crawl” that night at 11, so we rested awhile and headed out in a bus with around 20 of the 70 hostel guests. We went to Taksim (an area near Taksim Square) where the Istanbul night life thrives. We stayed out exploring for a few hours, and then went back and crashed at the hostel.

Air Conditioning and Other Inconveniences

That night is when the “air conditioner wars” began, between those who wanted to sweat the night away and those who wanted a cool sleep. In the middle of the night throughout our stay, some individuals would wake up, turn off the a/c and then an hour or so later one of us would get up when it got too hot to sleep and turn it back on. No-one ever knew who did which, and Wes instructed Christina and I to turn it on and hide the controller, which I did until the other person discovered how to turn the main power of the unit off by climbing on a nearby table.

Another persistent inconvenience with our stay was the 9:30 A.M. cutoff for breakfast, which seemed unreasonable to all of us for 20-somethings staying in a hostel. Speaking of breakfast, a Turkish breakfast is comprised of white cheese, sliced tomatoes, sliced cucumbers, sliced turkey sausage (turkey not Turkey), hard-boiled eggs, olives, and sliced bread. I, of course, could not eat the bread, so I ate the rest of it.

Another daily challenge was that there were what I like to call “road hounds” trying to get passing tourists to eat at their cafes along the main tourist drag, and there were other assailants near the Blue Moque and Aya Sofia that would follow you and stuff boat information into your hands.

A Bit O’ The Empire(s)

One of the funnest things about Istanbul is that the sprawling beauty of the old city is mostly walkable, and what you can’t walk to you can take public transportation to. I keep bragging about Istanbul’s public transportation system, and friends complain that I repeat the transportation story or they brand me the public transportation geek….BUT it’s pretty darn cool. You can use the trams, buses, ferries, and metro system all over the city and outside the city by using one card that is charged with credit. Pretty awesome.

Another intriguing aspect of the old city is that throughout the landscapes, old is contrasted with new…cobblestone streets and state of the art public transportation systems run side-by-side and are complementary to one another.

The morning after we arrived, Christina and I went to visit the Aya Sofia. This beautiful lady was originally a Greek Orthodox church, built in 36 A.D. by Constantius II. Following its inauguration, it served as a church for several denominations until the Ottomans conquered Constantinople (Istanbul) in 1453. ImageThe church, which had gone through several transformations, was turned into a mosque under the Ottoman Empire. The Aya Sofia is currently a museum that shows Christian and Islamic architecture and tradition side by side, another contrast of differing realities and times.

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Literally across the gardens from the Aya Sofia is the Blue Mosque, or the Sultan Ahmet Camii. The mosque rooftops shine blue at certain times of the day, and the hand-painted tiles that line the inside are also themed in blue, giving it its name. The mosque was built between 1609 and 1616 during the reign of Ahmed I. I first saw the mosque by night, and it really takes your breath away.

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The next day we spent in Istanbul, we visited the Topaki Palace and the Sultan’s Harem on the palace grounds. The palace sits protected within two stone walls and overlooks the Bosphorous.

We visited the harem, the ultimate gilded cage for the beautiful young women that were brought from across the empire at the pleasure of the Sultan. The windows were all barred, and the walls high. Eunuchs were maintained to deliver food to deliver food to the women and make sure they were looked after.

The inside walls of the harem and the palace are all decorated with more hand-painted tiles in beautiful patterns.

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In addition to the harem and main palace grounds, there was a treasury area to walk through and look at emeralds the size of your hand, and the relics area held the Prophet Mohammed’s beard, Moses’ staff and old religious texts. The palace tour took us a whole day, and Christina was beginning to feel sicker –  finding it almost impossible to swallow. The long lines (sometimes 30 minutes long), and heat were making it worse. We found a public park that used to be part of the palace grounds, and discovered a statue of Ataturk so we visited with him for awhile, then ate lemon cheesecake and drank green tea at a nearby cafe.

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More Adventures

Besides the normal tourist areas, we explored other places of interest. One evening we walked along the esplanade to look over the Bosphorous with a strong wind in our faces. We also discovered a new definition of “casserole” as there is a purely Turkish way of making a casserole with spices, meat, and cheese on top. It was one of the most delicious meat dishes I have ever had, and my favorite dish from Turkey.

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The Walking Tour Takes The Cake

The day after visiting the palace, Christina was painfully ill and popping pain killers, and then I started to get her symptoms. Lots of interrupted sleep, hot nights, lots of stress, travel, and walking was taking its toll. Some other girls at the hostel wanted to visit the hospital because they had strange red bumps all over their bodies, and Christina and I decided to go along whenever they went to be checked and given medicine.

That day, we had committed to a walking tour, normally a 7-hour affair, and Bahre decided he would take us to the hospital after guiding the tour. We set out around 11 in the morning, and explored the old side of the city. He took us up onto a rooftop where we looked over the city, and our entertaining British friend Tom brought along his horse and hippo heads. We found an amazing view over the city, and spent some time relaxing and enjoying the view.Image

And then the craziness began. We started with jumping photos from a rounded rooftop, and it looked like we were flying over Istanbul. Then Tom coerced us into wearing the heads, and I jumped with the horse head, Christina with the hippo.

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After hanging around and taking multiple jumping photos, we found some figs growing on a tree that reached the top of the roof, and ate them. Later, Christina reminded us that we could be eating parasites that would later make us violently ill. No matter, and so far no parasite. We listened to the call to prayer coming up from the city, echoing off the hillside we were on. I’ve heard the call to prayer hundreds of times, but this was stirring and a vivid memory of being surrounded by the city and the sound.

We hiked up from Istaklal (independence) street towards Taksim Square, where the whole street and square were filled with walkers and a small red tram.

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We reached a historic lighthouse that overlooked the city, and we toured the Grand Bazaar (the largest covered market in the world) and historic Spice Market where they sell uncounted types of Turkish Delight in bulk. I bought some spices, with which we have flavored up our new home cooking with in Amman.

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After the markets, we took the metro to one of the tallest residential buildings in the world, and one of the tallest buildings in Istanbul. It had a 360 degree overlook and restaurants on the top floor, and a cheesy “helicopter” ride that toured Istanbul.

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Our grand finale hospital to the 9-hour walking tour was our visit to the hospital. Christina had been a good sport all day even though it was extremely painful to swallow, and I was beginning to be in pain as well. After we finished the Sapphire Building tour, we left with the two Australian girls with strange bumps, and walked to a nearby German hospital.

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Just Christina was diagnosed to save on cost, and the doctor determined that we had bacterial laryngitis and gave her a prescription for over-the-counter antibiotics. We left, did some more walking, and then took the tram back to Sultanahmet. By the time we made it back, though, all the normal pharmacies (Eczanas) were closed. Bahre sent us along to one that was “5 minutes walking” along the Bosphorous, and we set out walking to it. Three sets of directions, and 30 minutes later we finally found it in the ferry terminal. We got two times the prescriptions, but when we tried to pay the store didn’t take any of our 4 credit cards. So, we went back out, found an ATM, and took cash back to pay. We were beyond exhaustion at this time, and began ripping pill packages apart to take them right then and there. We couldn’t take the antibiotic, though, because we hadn’t eaten recently, so we trudged out to find a taxi to take us back up the hill to the hostel.

The first taxi tried to charge us 40 Lira for a 5 minute ride – we laughed in his face and found another that charged us 7. Once we were back in Sultanahmet we went to Defnet restaurant, one near the hostel that gave the residents discounts. When the waiter pressured Christina to order something she didn’t want, she finally had had enough and burst out crying. I had to wave the guy away aggressively before he would leave her alone.

That night, we crashed and slept until around noon the next morning, then went back to sleep for another few hours in the afternoon.

Underwater Cistern

Another famous location Christina and I visited was the underground Basilican Cistern. It is the largest underground cistern in Istanbul, and was built under the reign of the Byzantine Emperor Justinian. The cistern provided a water filtration system for the residents of Constantinople (which had a very state of the art water system for the time). The ceiling is held up by over 300 marble columns, and it’s estimated that around 7,000 slaves were used to construct it. The cistern can hold over 2 million cubic square feet of water. Today, only about one foot of water remains, and lots of creepy cod are swimming around in the dark. Two Medusa heads are found hidden in a corner, thought to have been removed from a Roman temple when the Ottomans took over the city.

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Hamman

One of our final stops in the city was the Cağaloğlu Hamam. This is a historical Turkish bath that was the last Hamami built by the Ottoman Empire. It was finished in 1741, and was designed by one of the head architects of that era. We paid around 200 Turkish Lira for a massage, bubble bath, and scrub.

We went with our British friend Stephanie. In preparation, we read a blog about what to do and expect – it wasn’t quite enough to prepare us for what would happen. When we went inside, we were given a cloth wrap, and instructed to undress in a dressing room, in which we locked our belongings. Middle aged women in wet-suits instructed us to relax in the bath area, which had a high domed ceiling with holes to let the light in. Other women were lounging around, and a mother was bathing her children there independently.

Once we had relaxed, and built up some steam and sweat, the women returned, and laid us down around the large marble slab and scrubbed our ENTIRE bodies down with an exfoliating glove and wonderful soap. Then, we had a massage, then a bubbly scrub, then another massage. Between each cycle, we were led by the hand to where the water was gushing out of a faucet in the wall into a marble bowl, and then we were doused by our masseuse. At the end, they massaged and shampooed our hair, and sent us away with gifts of our exfoliating glove and some soap.

During the scrubbing down process, there were varying reactions about being completely naked in public, being bathed by a stranger. But, because it was the appropriate thing to do, we all adjusted our views to include this into “normal” behavior.

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Day at the Prince’s Islands

As the days in Istanbul were getting shorter, and we were exhausting what could be done in the old city, we decided to venture away from Sultanahmet and to different areas around the Bosphorous. Just a one-hour public ferryboat away was the Prince’s Islands. Found in the Sea of Marmara, they are a little grouping of scenic islands, or “Adalar” in Turkish, where many of the 25 million residents of Istanbul go for the weekend or take their kids. Of course, they cater to tourists too.

Christina and a Canadian friend from the hostel, David, set out for the ferry via tram, then chose some seats and enjoyed the scenic view of the cities.

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We chose the second island, Burgazada, which means “Fortress Island,” and got off for lunch and some exploring. We wandered through quaint neighborhoods that were accessible only via horse and cart (no cars allowed on the island) or by bike.

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We met some of the carts along the way, and petted the horses. There wasn’t much to see in the village, so we set off along a trail along the beach that took us up to the top of the mountain. There were amazing views and we managed to get some hiking and exploring in with amazing scenery.

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Day at the Black Sea

On our final day in Turkey, Christina and I met an old friend of mine from University of Montana Arabic class days, Kayla Hoggatt, and a friend she had met in Turkey, Tiffany. Kayla is working as an au pair for a Turkish family, and she spends most of her time with their daughter teaching her English. Tiff had held the same position as Kayla the two previous summers, and they had met through their common experience. Now, Tiff works as a teacher in a school in Istanbul.

To get to the Black Sea from Istanbul, you take the metro to the very last stop, then you take a public bus out to the town where the beach is, Kilyos. It took about an hour to take the metro, and another 45 minutes to get to the beach, but it was very green and scenic –  different than what we were used to in Instanbul for the most part. The beach was gorgeous, and laying around relaxing in the sand, sun, and wind was the best way to end a long and exciting trip.

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Good-byes…again

After our day at the beach, we spent the evening with our new friends on the hostel rooftop, drinking “tea shots” since we were taking antibiotics. It was sad to say good-bye to yet more friends right after leaving the U.S., but we were fortunate to meet them all. After lots of talking and reminiscing about the week, we slept and left to the airport. Farid had arranged for us to have first class seats on the way back through his connections in EgyptAir, and we had the most pleasant, comfortable, and peaceful end possible to our trip. I saw Omar, who I knew from New Jersey flying school days, and he was the one who took off and landed our plane. We had more beautiful views of Istanbul as we flew away.

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And then there was an apartment…

We were tired, and it was two days after departing from Christina’s apartment in D.C. By the time we arrived in Amman, Jordan on August 14th, we were ready to get rid of our haphazard checked-in baggage, and see our flat for the first time.

In June, Christina and I had contacted our friend, Jameel, who was our speaking partner last year for our Jordan Critical Language Scholarship (CLS) program and he had given us the information of a friend in Jeb Alwebdeh (a neighborhood in Amman near downtown). We put a deposit on a sweet looking flat, and hoped that it would be lovely when we arrived. Now we had arrived, where was lovely?

Unfortunately, the previous tenants hadn’t left yet, so we had to stay in a hotel in Shmeisani (a nearby neighborhood) called “Al Qasar,” or, “the castle.” It was expensive, but there were beds. We crashed at four A.M. and didn’t wake up until two P.M. the next morning, much to our surprise (?). Christina had a sore throat (more on this adventure later – Turkey).

No matter that it was late, we showered and set off to find the Fulbright Commission building that was nearby. By the way, working hours in Jordan are around nine A.M. to three P.M., and the workweek is Sunday through Thursday. Whoops. Everything was closed by the time we left our hotel, so we decided to take a cab to Duar Barees (Paris Circle) where our apartment would be. We found food, we felt accomplished for speaking Arabic to the driver AND we made it to where we wanted. Our ride back wasn’t so successful, and we walked a lot, but we eventually made it back to the hotel.

The next day we were able to move into our flat, and we hired a giant suburban (which doesn’t really fit down the streets here) to carry our expansive luggage to our apartment. We met our landlord and landlady, Jamal and Laila Khouri who are the most delightful landlords I’ve ever had. They are a middle-aged couple who lived in Canada and the U.S.A. for the last thirty years, and they are fun to talk with. Laila was waiting for her relatives to visit and she fed us biryani chicken when we arrived. Our building is right at Paris Circle over looking the city center and we enjoyed the view from the top floor balcony while we signed our lease.

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The inside was equally as nice. We feel fortunate.

Beginning

I talk about the value of change and flexibility a lot, and this summer has given me another chance to practice flexibility and experience change.

On August 10th, I packed my bags for a Fulbright year in Jordan. I’m setting off to teach English in a private Jordanian university: Princess Sumaya University for Technology, or PSUT. On my way to Jordan, I stopped over at my friend Christina Gordon’s apartment in Washington, D.C. for two nights.

Now, the first chance for flexibility. While we were away at a good-bye party for Christina her apartment was broken into and our three laptops were stolen, as well as her roommate’s wallet. We were relieved, in the midst of filing a police report at midnight, that our passports were still there so that we could continue to Jordan in two days.

Besides this setback (which involved sleeping with my passport under my pillow that night and a umbrella-turned-weapon by my the bed) the rest of the stay was enjoyable. We spent time with Christina’s friends and family, bought new laptops at Best Buy, and went to a Nationals’ game at the stadium.

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On Monday, we were off to Dulles International Airport with our four fifty-pound bags and much appreciated laptops. We made it to Frankfurt, our layover city, and succeeded at some exploring. Our first stop was a restaurant, where we ate pork chops, schnitzel, potatoes, sauerkraut, and apple wine.

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Once we’d fed ourselves on some legit German food, we headed to downtown walking and explored for awhile, much jet-lagged. We stopped for lattes and coffees at several cafes along the way in an attempt to be more alert in the middle of our regular sleep cycle.

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Frankfurt was beautiful. The weather was hinting at the tipping point of summer to fall, and it wasn’t humid at all. We found an Irish pub where we had internet and waited for our bus tour to begin. I found a good quote on the inside of the bathroom door in the pub.

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Once the time came, we met our extremely curt and blunt tour guide, who chided us for going to the bus rather than the tour office. We weren’t okay with that on no REM sleep and lots of walking, but our relationship with him improved throughout the afternoon because we refused to take his guff. We explored the city via a “get-on-get-off” tour bus system, and took lots of sleepy pictures with old architecture in the background. I’ve decided I like Frankfurt.

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